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If You Think You Don’t Have Time, Read This Before Another Week Disappears
Every minute you spend reading this, scrolling social media, or checking emails is an invisible trade. You’re exchanging life for something — a memory, a task, a dopamine hit.
Time management isn’t just about productivity. It’s about deciding what’s worth trading your life for.

Dr. ARUN V J
4 days ago5 min read


Quote 46: “What you leave behind is not what is engraved in stone monuments, but what is woven into the life of others.” – Pericles
Life is fragile. Life is short. Life is now.
In the grand timeline of Earth, we are here for a blink. But in that blink, you can love, you can create, you can lift others.
Because at the end, nobody remembers the size of your bank account or the square footage of your house. They remember how you made them feel. They remember if you cared.
And when you’re gone, your name will not be carved in stone—it will be written in hearts.

Dr. ARUN V J
Oct 34 min read


DRD 43: Stop Wasting Time: Teaching, Mentoring, and Coaching Aren’t the Same — Here’s How to Choose the Right One
The education system may still be outdated, but you don’t have to be. Recognize when you need a teacher, when you need a mentor, and when you need a coach. Get this right, and you’ll accelerate growth in ways classrooms never prepared you for.

Dr. ARUN V J
Oct 24 min read


Short story - “The Silent Year”
Short story in Blood Donation
Theme: Ink in the Veins
Prize winner at TRANSCON 2025 Golden Jubilee Conference, Delhi, organised by the Indian Society of Blood Transfusion & Immunohematology (ISBTI)

Dr. ARUN V J
Sep 223 min read


Quote 45: Calm or Storm? "There are some things you learn best in calm, and some in storm." — Willa Cather
Willa Cather’s wisdom is timeless: calm gives you clarity, but storms give you courage. If you only chase calm, you’ll stay at the dock. If you only live in storms, you’ll sink. The magic is in embracing both.
So the next time chaos hits your life, remember: it’s not punishment. It’s preparation. 🌊

Dr. ARUN V J
Sep 213 min read


DRD 42: How to Use MBTI to Understand Yourself (And Actually Grow From It)
It’s a personality framework that divides people into 16 different personality types based on how they:
Take in information
Make decisions
Interact with the world
It’s not some random internet quiz—it’s based on the psychological theories of Carl Jung, developed later by Katharine Cook Briggs and her daughter Isabel Briggs Myers.

Dr. ARUN V J
Sep 204 min read


Quote 44: “Never apologize for trying hard. It is an insult to your determination.” - Might Duy
Determination is your gift. Never insult it with an apology. You owe yourself the right to try, fail, rise, and try again.
Remember Might Dai’s words—etched not just for anime fans, but for anyone who has ever dared to keep moving despite the odds:
“Never apologize for trying hard. It is an insult to your determination.”

Dr. ARUN V J
Sep 143 min read


DRD 40:"Why Most Doctors Fail at Leadership – And How to Fix It Fast"
Professionals aren’t just doers – they’re the experts. Don’t let outsiders call the shots. Start with self-awareness, build skills, and lead from any role. Shape the future, whether it’s policy, startups, or team culture.

Dr. ARUN V J
Sep 84 min read


Quote 42: "A man must be big enough to admit his mistakes, smart enough to profit from them, and strong enough to correct them." — John C. Maxwell
admitting mistakes makes you big enough to overcome ego, smart enough to learn, and strong enough to correct them. Mistakes are not flaws—they’re opportunities to grow. Use the actionable steps above, draw inspiration from Edison, Oprah, and Rowling, and start embracing your mistakes today. Your brain, relationships, and success will thank you.

Dr. ARUN V J
Aug 85 min read


DRD 37: Master Strategic Thinking to Unlock Your Best Life (Your Secret Weapon for Better Decisions)
Strategic thinking isn't about being perfect or predicting the future. It's about making consistently better decisions, navigating uncertainty with purpose, and intentionally building the life you want – one deliberate step at a time. Stop reacting. Start strategizing.

Dr. ARUN V J
Aug 25 min read


Quote 41: "The function of prayer is not to influence God, but rather to change the nature of the one who prays." – Søren Kierkegaard
Key Aspects of Kierkegaard’s Thought:
Subjective Truth: He emphasized that truth is not just abstract ideas but lived experience—especially in matters of faith and personal commitment.
Leap of Faith: He argued that true belief in God requires passion and risk, not just rational proof.
Critique of Organized Religion: He challenged the institutional church, stressing that real Christianity demands personal engagement, not just ritual.
Anxiety & Freedom: He explore

Dr. ARUN V J
Jul 305 min read


Quote 40: Those who were seen dancing were thought to be insane by those who could not hear the music
To the conforming crowd, these individuals seem irrational, even insane, because their actions don't align with the accepted script. Nietzsche said it (or something very like it) to highlight the gulf between true innovators and the stagnant masses, and the inevitable misunderstanding the visionary faces.

Dr. ARUN V J
Jul 85 min read


Quote 39: "We are what we pretend to be, so we must be careful about what we pretend to be." — Kurt Vonnegut
The Man Behind the Quote: Why Kurt Vonnegut Warned Us About Pretending Image courtesy: Wix (1922-2007), the iconic American novelist and...

Dr. ARUN V J
Jun 244 min read


Quote 26: “If I am worth anything later, I am worth something now. For wheat is wheat, even if people think it is grass in the beginning.” - Vincent van Gogh
Van Gogh’s wheat metaphor isn’t just about patience—it’s about defiance.
Defy the voices that say you must “prove” yourself.
Defy the culture that confuses worth with wealth.
Defy the fear that you’re not “enough.”

Dr. ARUN V J
May 193 min read


Quote 25: "The wise man learns from the mistakes of others." - Otto von Bismarck
Bismarck’s quote reminds us: The smartest people don’t just learn from their own scars—they learn from the scars of others.
In a world overflowing with information, ignorance is a choice. The lessons are all around us—in history books, in broken businesses, in the regrets of those who came before us.

Dr. ARUN V J
May 94 min read


Quote 24: “Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man's character, give him power.” – Abraham Lincoln
Lincoln’s quote remains timeless because power is an eternal test—not just for the powerful, but for all of us. Adversity shapes us, but power defines us. Whether in leadership, business, or personal life, how we handle authority reveals our deepest values. The real challenge isn’t gaining power—it’s keeping our humanity intact while holding it.

Dr. ARUN V J
May 23 min read


Quote 23: “Quality means doing it right when no one is looking.” – Henry Ford
Henry Ford’s quote reminds us that quality isn’t an accident—it’s a deliberate choice. Whether in business, craftsmanship, or personal ethics, the best results come from doing things right, even when no one is looking.

Dr. ARUN V J
Apr 253 min read


Quote 22: "It’s not what we do once in a while that shapes our lives. It’s what we do consistently." – Tony Robbins
One workout won’t make you fit.
One day of work won’t make you successful.
One act of kindness won’t define your character.
But if you show up every day, if you refuse to quit, if you commit to the process—you will inevitably succeed.

Dr. ARUN V J
Apr 144 min read


Quote 21: Fail with Honor Rather Than Succeed by Fraud: The Timeless Wisdom of Sophocles
Sophocles’ words are a call to live with courage. In a world obsessed with winning, the real victory is staying true to yourself.

Dr. ARUN V J
Apr 104 min read


Quote 20: "If you learn from defeat, you haven’t really lost" — Zig Ziglar on failure & success
Life is fleeting. One day, you won’t look back and think, "I’m glad I played it safe." You’ll wonder:
What if I had taken that chance?
If..?

Dr. ARUN V J
Apr 53 min read
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