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THIRD THINKER



Quote 52: “I never lose. I either win or learn.” The Mindset Nelson Mandela Used to Survive Prison and Change the World
Mandela’s mindset teaches one powerful idea:
Your real victory is your ability to learn—nothing else.
Once you understand this:
Failure stops scaring you
Risks stop intimidating you
Growth becomes natural
Purpose becomes clearer
Life becomes a series of experiments, not battles
You become unstoppable.
Because no one can defeat a person who refuses to lose

Dr. ARUN V J
19 hours ago6 min read


DRD 53: The Skill That Turns Ordinary People Into Outliers: How to Build Sherlock-Level Observation (Without Losing Your Mind)
Your brain is powerful.
But it runs on the habits you feed it.
Retrain your focus and you change your life’s trajectory.
Start small.
Notice the unnoticed.
Use your senses intentionally.
Over time, you will develop a mind that sees deeper, thinks faster, and understands better.
That is what separates ordinary performers from extraordinary ones.

Dr. ARUN V J
4 days ago5 min read


Quote 51: “I fear not the man who has practiced 10,000 kicks once, but the man who has practiced one kick 10,000 times.” — Bruce Lee
Bruce Lee wasn’t speaking about punches.
He was speaking about identity.
About conviction.
About the rare strength required to not be shaken by speed, shortcuts, or distractions.
In a world obsessed with doing a thousand things once,
be the person who does one thing a thousand times.
That is how you stand out.
That is how you make real impact.
That is how you build a legacy.

Dr. ARUN V J
Nov 176 min read


DRD 52: You Speak Even When You’re Silent: The Science of Non-Verbal Communication That Shapes Your Destiny
If you’ve ever been overlooked despite knowing more — it’s likely your non-verbal presence that needs upgrading, not your intelligence.
Presence isn’t about dominating a room; it’s about owning your energy within it.
Walk with intent.
Speak slower.
Hold eye contact for one heartbeat longer.
Smile with authenticity, not performance.
These micro-behaviors compound into macro-perception — people start seeing you differently because you see yourself differently.

Dr. ARUN V J
Nov 135 min read


Quote 50: "The mind, once stretched by a new idea, never returns to its original dimensions."
Growth doesn’t happen in comfort.
Every time your mind feels stretched beyond its limit — you’re evolving.
You’re becoming someone new.
Someone who thinks bigger, sees wider, and feels deeper.
That’s not instability. That’s expansion.
So, the next time an idea scares you — lean in.
Because your mind, once stretched, will never shrink again.

Dr. ARUN V J
Nov 116 min read


DRD 50: “Most People Stop Thinking Too Soon: The 3 Levels of Thinking That Separate the Wise from the Rest.”
We live in a world drowning in noise and speed.
But the quiet mind — the one that thinks in layers — wins every time.
Because while others chase what’s urgent, thinkers build what’s important.
If this post made you pause, share it with a friend who always reacts fast but regrets later.
Let’s make deep thinking a trend again.

Dr. ARUN V J
Nov 66 min read


DRD 48: Emotional Intelligence: The Skill That Outranks IQ (and Why You Need It Now)
We spend years learning math, language, and science.
But no one teaches us how to manage emotions — our own or others’.
That’s why brilliant people still struggle with anger, burnout, or fragile relationships.

Dr. ARUN V J
Oct 315 min read


Quote: 49 "We learn nothing from life except through the prism of our assumptions." — André Gide
Every one of us is walking around with invisible glasses that color our reality.
Most never take them off.
But those who do — they start to see.
That’s where self-growth begins.
That’s where leadership becomes wisdom.
That’s where life truly happens.

Dr. ARUN V J
Oct 285 min read


DRD 51: The Lie We’ve All Been Told About Hard Work: Embracing Microbreaks for Success
The most dangerous myth of productivity is that rest is a reward for hard work.
It’s not.
Rest is what makes hard work possible.
When you schedule microbreaks, you’re not being lazy — you’re being strategic.
You’re acknowledging that your brain is biological, not mechanical.
And that simple shift can be the difference between a career that burns bright — and one that burns out.

Dr. ARUN V J
Oct 245 min read


Quote 48: What Vs Why : “He who has a why to live can bear almost any how.”— Friedrich Nietzsche
We live in a world obsessed with how-tos — how to get rich, how to be productive, how to stay happy.
But before the how, there’s always the why.
Nietzsche understood it.
Frankl lived it.
Sinek explained it.
And maybe now, it’s your turn to ask yourself:

Dr. ARUN V J
Oct 185 min read


DRD 46: The Game Theory of Life: How to Outsmart Luck and Play the Long Game
Life can feel unpredictable.
But once you start seeing it through the lens of Game Theory, you realize — it’s not about luck, it’s about strategy.
You can choose your moves.
You can anticipate others.
You can play for growth, not just survival.
So the next time you feel powerless, remember:
You’re already in the game. You just need to learn to play it better.

Dr. ARUN V J
Oct 145 min read


Quote 47: Nothing Gets Easier — You Just Get Better - Life
Nothing gets easier. You just get better.
And that’s beautiful — because it means you are never stuck. You are always evolving.
When life feels impossible, don’t wish for ease. Wish for wisdom. Wish for strength. Wish for the version of you that can handle anything.
That version already exists inside you.

Dr. ARUN V J
Oct 114 min read


Quote 46: “What you leave behind is not what is engraved in stone monuments, but what is woven into the life of others.” – Pericles
Life is fragile. Life is short. Life is now.
In the grand timeline of Earth, we are here for a blink. But in that blink, you can love, you can create, you can lift others.
Because at the end, nobody remembers the size of your bank account or the square footage of your house. They remember how you made them feel. They remember if you cared.
And when you’re gone, your name will not be carved in stone—it will be written in hearts.

Dr. ARUN V J
Oct 34 min read


DRD 43: Stop Wasting Time: Teaching, Mentoring, and Coaching Aren’t the Same — Here’s How to Choose the Right One
The education system may still be outdated, but you don’t have to be. Recognize when you need a teacher, when you need a mentor, and when you need a coach. Get this right, and you’ll accelerate growth in ways classrooms never prepared you for.

Dr. ARUN V J
Oct 24 min read


Short story - “The Silent Year”
Short story in Blood Donation
Theme: Ink in the Veins
Prize winner at TRANSCON 2025 Golden Jubilee Conference, Delhi, organised by the Indian Society of Blood Transfusion & Immunohematology (ISBTI)

Dr. ARUN V J
Sep 223 min read


Quote 45: Calm or Storm? "There are some things you learn best in calm, and some in storm." — Willa Cather
Willa Cather’s wisdom is timeless: calm gives you clarity, but storms give you courage. If you only chase calm, you’ll stay at the dock. If you only live in storms, you’ll sink. The magic is in embracing both.
So the next time chaos hits your life, remember: it’s not punishment. It’s preparation. 🌊

Dr. ARUN V J
Sep 213 min read


DRD 42: How to Use MBTI to Understand Yourself (And Actually Grow From It)
It’s a personality framework that divides people into 16 different personality types based on how they:
Take in information
Make decisions
Interact with the world
It’s not some random internet quiz—it’s based on the psychological theories of Carl Jung, developed later by Katharine Cook Briggs and her daughter Isabel Briggs Myers.

Dr. ARUN V J
Sep 204 min read


DRD 41: “This Simple 80/20 Trick Will 80% Boost Your Results While Cutting Out 80% of the Busywork” - Pareto Principle
The Pareto Principle is deceptively simple. It’s not magic — its power comes from its clarity. When you use it, you stop trying to do everything well and instead do what matters extremely well.
If you start today, pick one domain of your life, find your vital few, and give them your best. Everything else? Let it go—or at least stop treating them like equal priority.

Dr. ARUN V J
Sep 194 min read


Quote 44: “Never apologize for trying hard. It is an insult to your determination.” - Might Duy
Determination is your gift. Never insult it with an apology. You owe yourself the right to try, fail, rise, and try again.
Remember Might Dai’s words—etched not just for anime fans, but for anyone who has ever dared to keep moving despite the odds:
“Never apologize for trying hard. It is an insult to your determination.”

Dr. ARUN V J
Sep 143 min read


Quote 43: "I Am I Plus My Circumstances: How to Break Free and Build a Life You Love"
José Ortega y Gasset’s words remind us that we’re not just our circumstances—we’re what we do with them. By assessing your environment, building self-awareness, expanding your worldview, and taking small, intentional steps, you can reshape your life. Look at Oprah, Elon, J.K., and LeBron—they didn’t let their circumstances define them. They changed their surroundings and, in turn, changed themselves.

Dr. ARUN V J
Sep 65 min read
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