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THIRD THINKER



DRD 39: “Why Loss Can Be the Smartest Move You’ll Ever Make (The Hidden Psychology of Success)”
The art of winning is the art of smart losing. When you become a visionary with a long lens, you free yourself from the fear of small losses and invest your energy into the battles that truly matter.
Next time you face a painful “loss,” ask: Am I losing a battle, or am I winning the war?

Dr. ARUN V J
Aug 295 min read


DRD 38: Prospect Theory: Why We Fear Losing More Than We Love Winning?
Prospect theory shows that we’re not always rational—and that’s okay. By understanding why we fear losses more than we seek wins, you can take control of your decisions and stop letting fear hold you back. Whether it’s pursuing a new career, investing in yourself, or letting go of something that no longer serves you, these insights empower you to act with confidence.

Dr. ARUN V J
Aug 114 min read


Quote 42: "A man must be big enough to admit his mistakes, smart enough to profit from them, and strong enough to correct them." — John C. Maxwell
admitting mistakes makes you big enough to overcome ego, smart enough to learn, and strong enough to correct them. Mistakes are not flaws—they’re opportunities to grow. Use the actionable steps above, draw inspiration from Edison, Oprah, and Rowling, and start embracing your mistakes today. Your brain, relationships, and success will thank you.

Dr. ARUN V J
Aug 85 min read


DRD 37: Master Strategic Thinking to Unlock Your Best Life (Your Secret Weapon for Better Decisions)
Strategic thinking isn't about being perfect or predicting the future. It's about making consistently better decisions, navigating uncertainty with purpose, and intentionally building the life you want – one deliberate step at a time. Stop reacting. Start strategizing.

Dr. ARUN V J
Aug 25 min read


Quote 41: "The function of prayer is not to influence God, but rather to change the nature of the one who prays." – Søren Kierkegaard
Key Aspects of Kierkegaard’s Thought:
Subjective Truth: He emphasized that truth is not just abstract ideas but lived experience—especially in matters of faith and personal commitment.
Leap of Faith: He argued that true belief in God requires passion and risk, not just rational proof.
Critique of Organized Religion: He challenged the institutional church, stressing that real Christianity demands personal engagement, not just ritual.
Anxiety & Freedom: He explore

Dr. ARUN V J
Jul 305 min read


Quote 40: Those who were seen dancing were thought to be insane by those who could not hear the music
To the conforming crowd, these individuals seem irrational, even insane, because their actions don't align with the accepted script. Nietzsche said it (or something very like it) to highlight the gulf between true innovators and the stagnant masses, and the inevitable misunderstanding the visionary faces.

Dr. ARUN V J
Jul 85 min read


DRD 35: How to Captivate Any Audience Using Story Telling (Including Medicine, Business & Life)
When you hear facts, only two areas of your brain activate (Broca’s and Wernicke’s, for language processing). But when you hear a story? Your whole brain comes alive.
Mirror neurons fire as if you’re experiencing the story
Dopamine surges during suspense (making the story addictive)
Oxytocin releases when we empathize (creating trust)

Dr. ARUN V J
Jun 294 min read


Quote 39: "We are what we pretend to be, so we must be careful about what we pretend to be." — Kurt Vonnegut
The Man Behind the Quote: Why Kurt Vonnegut Warned Us About Pretending Image courtesy: Wix (1922-2007), the iconic American novelist and...

Dr. ARUN V J
Jun 244 min read


DRD 34: Change Management in Healthcare: Leading Successfully in a VUCA World
Healthcare is facing more disruption than ever before:
Technological Shifts: AI, telemedicine, and EHR systems are reshaping care delivery.
Patient Expectations: Patients now rate hospitals on empathy, convenience, and digital experience—not just clinical outcomes.
Workforce Challenges: Staff burnout, nursing shortages, and generational differences in work expectations.
Regulatory & Financial Pressures: Value-based care demands efficiency without sacrificing qua

Dr. ARUN V J
Jun 193 min read


Quote 38: “In matters of conscience, the law of the majority has no place.” – Mahatma Gandhi
Gandhi’s message was not just about protest—it was about the sacred duty of individual conscience. In a world where leaders often prioritize power over principle, his words remind us:
"The true measure of leadership is not how many follow you, but how many find their own moral courage because of you."
The next time society pressures you to conform—whether through laws, trends, or fear—listen to that quiet voice within. Because in the end, history does not remember the sil

Dr. ARUN V J
Jun 154 min read


DRD 33: Decision Making: How to Make Smarter Choices in Life
Decision making is a skill you can develop. Unlike fixed traits like height or innate talent, decision-making ability improves with practice, self-awareness, and structured thinking. Whether you're deciding on a new job, a financial investment, or daily habits, better decisions lead to better outcomes—and ultimately, a better life.

Dr. ARUN V J
Jun 73 min read


Quote 27: “With great power comes great responsibility.” – Voltaire (popularized by Spider-Man)
We’ve all heard it—probably from Spider-Man. But here’s a fun fact: Voltaire said it first.
Be the leader your colleagues want to follow.
Be the mentor your juniors look up to.
Be the voice that inspires positive action, even when you're not in the room.
Be humble enough to know your power is a tool, not an identity.

Dr. ARUN V J
Jun 44 min read


DRD 32: Leadership in Healthcare: Why We Need Visionaries, Not Just Managers
The Leader: Focuses on the future. They see beyond the immediate data point to the human story, the potential, and the bigger vision. They inspire, motivate, and challenge. They don't just manage resources; they cultivate people and culture. They fight for what's right, not just what's efficient. They build bridges, not silos. They innovate and drive change.

Dr. ARUN V J
May 294 min read


DRD 31: The Myth of Multitasking: Why Your Brain Was Never Built to Juggle (And How to Reclaim Your Focus)
Multitasking isn’t a skill—it’s a trap. In a world addicted to distraction, single-tasking is a revolutionary act. By focusing on one thing at a time, you’ll:
Work faster (no switch costs)
Think deeper (hello, creativity!)
Feel calmer (less cortisol, more flow)

Dr. ARUN V J
May 123 min read


Quote 24: “Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man's character, give him power.” – Abraham Lincoln
Lincoln’s quote remains timeless because power is an eternal test—not just for the powerful, but for all of us. Adversity shapes us, but power defines us. Whether in leadership, business, or personal life, how we handle authority reveals our deepest values. The real challenge isn’t gaining power—it’s keeping our humanity intact while holding it.

Dr. ARUN V J
May 23 min read


Quote 23: “Quality means doing it right when no one is looking.” – Henry Ford
Henry Ford’s quote reminds us that quality isn’t an accident—it’s a deliberate choice. Whether in business, craftsmanship, or personal ethics, the best results come from doing things right, even when no one is looking.

Dr. ARUN V J
Apr 253 min read


Quote 22: "It’s not what we do once in a while that shapes our lives. It’s what we do consistently." – Tony Robbins
One workout won’t make you fit.
One day of work won’t make you successful.
One act of kindness won’t define your character.
But if you show up every day, if you refuse to quit, if you commit to the process—you will inevitably succeed.

Dr. ARUN V J
Apr 144 min read


DRD 27: Deep Work for Doctors and students – How to Achieve Focused Productivity in a Chaotic Environment
The best diagnosticians, surgeons, and researchers aren’t just smart—they’ve mastered the art of sustained, distraction-free focus.
For medical students, deep work means faster learning, better retention, and higher exam scores.

Dr. ARUN V J
Apr 113 min read


DRD 26: How to Use the Eisenhower Matrix? Time Management Tool for Doctors & Students
The Eisenhower Matrix is a proven, timeless tool for medical professionals. By categorizing tasks into urgent vs. important, you can:✔ Focus

Dr. ARUN V J
Apr 73 min read


DRD 25: The Feynman Technique: The Ultimate Guide for Medical Professionals to Learn, Teach, and Communicate Effectively
Feynman’s approach wasn’t just for physics—it’s perfect for medicine, where clear understanding and communication save lives.

Dr. ARUN V J
Apr 14 min read
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