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THIRD THINKER



DRD 39: “Why Loss Can Be the Smartest Move You’ll Ever Make (The Hidden Psychology of Success)”
The art of winning is the art of smart losing. When you become a visionary with a long lens, you free yourself from the fear of small losses and invest your energy into the battles that truly matter.
Next time you face a painful “loss,” ask: Am I losing a battle, or am I winning the war?

Dr. ARUN V J
Aug 29, 20255 min read


Quote 42: "A man must be big enough to admit his mistakes, smart enough to profit from them, and strong enough to correct them." — John C. Maxwell
admitting mistakes makes you big enough to overcome ego, smart enough to learn, and strong enough to correct them. Mistakes are not flaws—they’re opportunities to grow. Use the actionable steps above, draw inspiration from Edison, Oprah, and Rowling, and start embracing your mistakes today. Your brain, relationships, and success will thank you.

Dr. ARUN V J
Aug 8, 20255 min read


Quote 41: "The function of prayer is not to influence God, but rather to change the nature of the one who prays." – Søren Kierkegaard
Key Aspects of Kierkegaard’s Thought:
Subjective Truth: He emphasized that truth is not just abstract ideas but lived experience—especially in matters of faith and personal commitment.
Leap of Faith: He argued that true belief in God requires passion and risk, not just rational proof.
Critique of Organized Religion: He challenged the institutional church, stressing that real Christianity demands personal engagement, not just ritual.
Anxiety & Freedom: He explore

Dr. ARUN V J
Jul 30, 20255 min read


Quote 40: Those who were seen dancing were thought to be insane by those who could not hear the music
To the conforming crowd, these individuals seem irrational, even insane, because their actions don't align with the accepted script. Nietzsche said it (or something very like it) to highlight the gulf between true innovators and the stagnant masses, and the inevitable misunderstanding the visionary faces.

Dr. ARUN V J
Jul 8, 20255 min read


DRD 35: How to Captivate Any Audience Using Story Telling (Including Medicine, Business & Life)
When you hear facts, only two areas of your brain activate (Broca’s and Wernicke’s, for language processing). But when you hear a story? Your whole brain comes alive.
Mirror neurons fire as if you’re experiencing the story
Dopamine surges during suspense (making the story addictive)
Oxytocin releases when we empathize (creating trust)

Dr. ARUN V J
Jun 29, 20254 min read


Quote 39: "We are what we pretend to be, so we must be careful about what we pretend to be." — Kurt Vonnegut
The Man Behind the Quote: Why Kurt Vonnegut Warned Us About Pretending Image courtesy: Wix (1922-2007), the iconic American novelist and...

Dr. ARUN V J
Jun 24, 20254 min read


Quote 38: “In matters of conscience, the law of the majority has no place.” – Mahatma Gandhi
Gandhi’s message was not just about protest—it was about the sacred duty of individual conscience. In a world where leaders often prioritize power over principle, his words remind us:
"The true measure of leadership is not how many follow you, but how many find their own moral courage because of you."
The next time society pressures you to conform—whether through laws, trends, or fear—listen to that quiet voice within. Because in the end, history does not remember the sil

Dr. ARUN V J
Jun 15, 20254 min read


Quote 27: “With great power comes great responsibility.” – Voltaire (popularized by Spider-Man)
We’ve all heard it—probably from Spider-Man. But here’s a fun fact: Voltaire said it first.
Be the leader your colleagues want to follow.
Be the mentor your juniors look up to.
Be the voice that inspires positive action, even when you're not in the room.
Be humble enough to know your power is a tool, not an identity.

Dr. ARUN V J
Jun 4, 20254 min read


Quote 26: “If I am worth anything later, I am worth something now. For wheat is wheat, even if people think it is grass in the beginning.” - Vincent van Gogh
Van Gogh’s wheat metaphor isn’t just about patience—it’s about defiance.
Defy the voices that say you must “prove” yourself.
Defy the culture that confuses worth with wealth.
Defy the fear that you’re not “enough.”

Dr. ARUN V J
May 19, 20253 min read


Quote 25: "The wise man learns from the mistakes of others." - Otto von Bismarck
Bismarck’s quote reminds us: The smartest people don’t just learn from their own scars—they learn from the scars of others.
In a world overflowing with information, ignorance is a choice. The lessons are all around us—in history books, in broken businesses, in the regrets of those who came before us.

Dr. ARUN V J
May 9, 20254 min read


Quote 24: “Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man's character, give him power.” – Abraham Lincoln
Lincoln’s quote remains timeless because power is an eternal test—not just for the powerful, but for all of us. Adversity shapes us, but power defines us. Whether in leadership, business, or personal life, how we handle authority reveals our deepest values. The real challenge isn’t gaining power—it’s keeping our humanity intact while holding it.

Dr. ARUN V J
May 2, 20253 min read


Quote 23: “Quality means doing it right when no one is looking.” – Henry Ford
Henry Ford’s quote reminds us that quality isn’t an accident—it’s a deliberate choice. Whether in business, craftsmanship, or personal ethics, the best results come from doing things right, even when no one is looking.

Dr. ARUN V J
Apr 25, 20253 min read


Quote 22: "It’s not what we do once in a while that shapes our lives. It’s what we do consistently." – Tony Robbins
One workout won’t make you fit.
One day of work won’t make you successful.
One act of kindness won’t define your character.
But if you show up every day, if you refuse to quit, if you commit to the process—you will inevitably succeed.

Dr. ARUN V J
Apr 14, 20254 min read


Quote 21: Fail with Honor Rather Than Succeed by Fraud: The Timeless Wisdom of Sophocles
Sophocles’ words are a call to live with courage. In a world obsessed with winning, the real victory is staying true to yourself.

Dr. ARUN V J
Apr 10, 20254 min read


Quote 20: "If you learn from defeat, you haven’t really lost" — Zig Ziglar on failure & success
Life is fleeting. One day, you won’t look back and think, "I’m glad I played it safe." You’ll wonder:
What if I had taken that chance?
If..?

Dr. ARUN V J
Apr 5, 20253 min read


Quote 19: "You Must Have Chaos Within You to Give Birth to a Dancing Star" – Nietzsche’s Philosophy of Chaos, Order, and Human Transformation
Life is not about choosing between chaos and order—it’s about mastering both. A star cannot form without cosmic turbulence.

Dr. ARUN V J
Mar 31, 20254 min read


Quote 18: Beware of the man who works hard to learn something, learns it, and finds himself no wiser than before." — Kurt Vonnegut
Kurt Vonnegut’s quote isn’t a dismissal of knowledge—it’s a call to anchor it in wisdom. In a world where “brain rot” threatens to reduce us

Dr. ARUN V J
Mar 20, 20253 min read


Quote 17: "The illiterate of the 21st century will not be those who cannot read and write, but those who cannot learn, unlearn, and relearn." — Alvin Toffler
The ability to learn, unlearn, and relearn is no longer optional—it’s essential. As we navigate the complexities of the 21st century, let us

Dr. ARUN V J
Mar 13, 20255 min read


Quote 16: Don’t Be Serious, Be Sincere
Chetan Bhagat’s quote, "Don’t be serious, be sincere," is a timeless reminder to live authentically in a world that often values appearances

Dr. ARUN V J
Mar 8, 20254 min read


Quote 15: "One repays a teacher badly if one always remains nothing but a pupil." — Friedrich Nietzsche
Nietzsche’s words are a reminder that learning is only the beginning. A student who never surpasses the teacher does a disservice not only..

Dr. ARUN V J
Mar 1, 20254 min read
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