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THIRD THINKER



DRD 42: How to Use MBTI to Understand Yourself (And Actually Grow From It)
It’s a personality framework that divides people into 16 different personality types based on how they:
Take in information
Make decisions
Interact with the world
It’s not some random internet quiz—it’s based on the psychological theories of Carl Jung, developed later by Katharine Cook Briggs and her daughter Isabel Briggs Myers.

Dr. ARUN V J
Sep 20, 20254 min read


Quote 44: “Never apologize for trying hard. It is an insult to your determination.” - Might Duy
Determination is your gift. Never insult it with an apology. You owe yourself the right to try, fail, rise, and try again.
Remember Might Dai’s words—etched not just for anime fans, but for anyone who has ever dared to keep moving despite the odds:
“Never apologize for trying hard. It is an insult to your determination.”

Dr. ARUN V J
Sep 14, 20253 min read


Quote 43: "I Am I Plus My Circumstances: How to Break Free and Build a Life You Love"
José Ortega y Gasset’s words remind us that we’re not just our circumstances—we’re what we do with them. By assessing your environment, building self-awareness, expanding your worldview, and taking small, intentional steps, you can reshape your life. Look at Oprah, Elon, J.K., and LeBron—they didn’t let their circumstances define them. They changed their surroundings and, in turn, changed themselves.

Dr. ARUN V J
Sep 6, 20255 min read


DRD 39: “Why Loss Can Be the Smartest Move You’ll Ever Make (The Hidden Psychology of Success)”
The art of winning is the art of smart losing. When you become a visionary with a long lens, you free yourself from the fear of small losses and invest your energy into the battles that truly matter.
Next time you face a painful “loss,” ask: Am I losing a battle, or am I winning the war?

Dr. ARUN V J
Aug 29, 20255 min read


DRD 38: Prospect Theory: Why We Fear Losing More Than We Love Winning?
Prospect theory shows that we’re not always rational—and that’s okay. By understanding why we fear losses more than we seek wins, you can take control of your decisions and stop letting fear hold you back. Whether it’s pursuing a new career, investing in yourself, or letting go of something that no longer serves you, these insights empower you to act with confidence.

Dr. ARUN V J
Aug 11, 20254 min read


Quote 42: "A man must be big enough to admit his mistakes, smart enough to profit from them, and strong enough to correct them." — John C. Maxwell
admitting mistakes makes you big enough to overcome ego, smart enough to learn, and strong enough to correct them. Mistakes are not flaws—they’re opportunities to grow. Use the actionable steps above, draw inspiration from Edison, Oprah, and Rowling, and start embracing your mistakes today. Your brain, relationships, and success will thank you.

Dr. ARUN V J
Aug 8, 20255 min read


DRD 37: Master Strategic Thinking to Unlock Your Best Life (Your Secret Weapon for Better Decisions)
Strategic thinking isn't about being perfect or predicting the future. It's about making consistently better decisions, navigating uncertainty with purpose, and intentionally building the life you want – one deliberate step at a time. Stop reacting. Start strategizing.

Dr. ARUN V J
Aug 2, 20255 min read


DRD 36: Beyond IQ: Why Emotional Intelligence / Emotional Quotient is Your Secret Weapon for Success (And How to Build It)
IQ can get you in the door, but EQ is what lets you stay and truly thrive. In today's complex world – whether navigating corporate chaos, building meaningful relationships, or leading effectively – emotional intelligence isn't just a "nice-to-have." It's the core skill separating those who merely function from those who truly flourish.

Dr. ARUN V J
Jul 10, 20255 min read


Quote 40: Those who were seen dancing were thought to be insane by those who could not hear the music
To the conforming crowd, these individuals seem irrational, even insane, because their actions don't align with the accepted script. Nietzsche said it (or something very like it) to highlight the gulf between true innovators and the stagnant masses, and the inevitable misunderstanding the visionary faces.

Dr. ARUN V J
Jul 8, 20255 min read


Quote 39: "We are what we pretend to be, so we must be careful about what we pretend to be." — Kurt Vonnegut
The Man Behind the Quote: Why Kurt Vonnegut Warned Us About Pretending Image courtesy: Wix (1922-2007), the iconic American novelist and...

Dr. ARUN V J
Jun 24, 20254 min read


Quote 38: “In matters of conscience, the law of the majority has no place.” – Mahatma Gandhi
Gandhi’s message was not just about protest—it was about the sacred duty of individual conscience. In a world where leaders often prioritize power over principle, his words remind us:
"The true measure of leadership is not how many follow you, but how many find their own moral courage because of you."
The next time society pressures you to conform—whether through laws, trends, or fear—listen to that quiet voice within. Because in the end, history does not remember the sil

Dr. ARUN V J
Jun 15, 20254 min read


Quote 27: “With great power comes great responsibility.” – Voltaire (popularized by Spider-Man)
We’ve all heard it—probably from Spider-Man. But here’s a fun fact: Voltaire said it first.
Be the leader your colleagues want to follow.
Be the mentor your juniors look up to.
Be the voice that inspires positive action, even when you're not in the room.
Be humble enough to know your power is a tool, not an identity.

Dr. ARUN V J
Jun 4, 20254 min read


DRD 32: Leadership in Healthcare: Why We Need Visionaries, Not Just Managers
The Leader: Focuses on the future. They see beyond the immediate data point to the human story, the potential, and the bigger vision. They inspire, motivate, and challenge. They don't just manage resources; they cultivate people and culture. They fight for what's right, not just what's efficient. They build bridges, not silos. They innovate and drive change.

Dr. ARUN V J
May 29, 20254 min read


Quote 26: “If I am worth anything later, I am worth something now. For wheat is wheat, even if people think it is grass in the beginning.” - Vincent van Gogh
Van Gogh’s wheat metaphor isn’t just about patience—it’s about defiance.
Defy the voices that say you must “prove” yourself.
Defy the culture that confuses worth with wealth.
Defy the fear that you’re not “enough.”

Dr. ARUN V J
May 19, 20253 min read


DRD 31: The Myth of Multitasking: Why Your Brain Was Never Built to Juggle (And How to Reclaim Your Focus)
Multitasking isn’t a skill—it’s a trap. In a world addicted to distraction, single-tasking is a revolutionary act. By focusing on one thing at a time, you’ll:
Work faster (no switch costs)
Think deeper (hello, creativity!)
Feel calmer (less cortisol, more flow)

Dr. ARUN V J
May 12, 20253 min read


Quote 24: “Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man's character, give him power.” – Abraham Lincoln
Lincoln’s quote remains timeless because power is an eternal test—not just for the powerful, but for all of us. Adversity shapes us, but power defines us. Whether in leadership, business, or personal life, how we handle authority reveals our deepest values. The real challenge isn’t gaining power—it’s keeping our humanity intact while holding it.

Dr. ARUN V J
May 2, 20253 min read


Quote 23: “Quality means doing it right when no one is looking.” – Henry Ford
Henry Ford’s quote reminds us that quality isn’t an accident—it’s a deliberate choice. Whether in business, craftsmanship, or personal ethics, the best results come from doing things right, even when no one is looking.

Dr. ARUN V J
Apr 25, 20253 min read


DRD 28: Spaced Repetition in Medical Learning: The Secret Tool for Productivity and Long-Term Retention
Spaced repetition is a game-changer, especially in the demanding world of medicine. It’s not magic, but a scientifically-backed, practical strategy to stay sharp without burning out.
It helps you make the most of your time, boosts your productivity, and ensures that you’re not just cramming for the next exam—but building a solid foundation for lifelong clinical excellence.

Dr. ARUN V J
Apr 16, 20254 min read


DRD 27: Deep Work for Doctors and students – How to Achieve Focused Productivity in a Chaotic Environment
The best diagnosticians, surgeons, and researchers aren’t just smart—they’ve mastered the art of sustained, distraction-free focus.
For medical students, deep work means faster learning, better retention, and higher exam scores.

Dr. ARUN V J
Apr 11, 20253 min read


DRD 26: How to Use the Eisenhower Matrix? Time Management Tool for Doctors & Students
The Eisenhower Matrix is a proven, timeless tool for medical professionals. By categorizing tasks into urgent vs. important, you can:✔ Focus

Dr. ARUN V J
Apr 7, 20253 min read
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