Most self-help advice is like going to a desert dweller and trying to sell them swimming lessons. It’s "motivation" without context. You can show them the most beautiful pool in the world, but if they don't see water as a necessity for their current survival, they won't learn. Conversely, if you go to a fisherman and ask him to conserve water, he’ll look at you like you’re crazy. He’s surrounded by it. He has no "need" to change his relationship with it.